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B. KÁDÁR JUDIT (BUDAPEST)

Psychologist; organizer of Schedule 1944 and Silent Remembrance

 

 

Her professional and civic activities are characterized by attentive presence, cooperation, and the responsibility of remembrance. As a psychologist, she strengthened professional teamwork serving the multifaceted support of children, and as a civic organizer, she has been consistently working for more than a decade to commemorate the deportation of rural Hungarian Jews.

She has worked as a psychologist since 1994, and between 2004 and 2009 she was the head of the Váci Educational Consulting Center. Under her leadership, speech therapists, developmental educators, psychologists and other professionals worked together to find the best ways to support individual children.

Since 2014, she has been organizing the annual series of commemorations entitled Schedule 1944, which lasts for several weeks, in Budapest's Szabadság Square, together with history teacher Gyula Hosszú and others. The program follows the events from the anniversary of the first deportation trains of rural Jews to Auschwitz-Birkenau, May 14, to the last day of the deportations, July 9. From the beginning, she was one of the driving forces behind the organization, initiating the invitation of historians, artists, cantors, and Holocaust survivors, including Éva Fahidi.

During the coronavirus pandemic, in 2021, she organized virtual commemorations, which were also joined by survivors living abroad. She created a social media group called Silent Remembrance, where she recalls the history of the deportations day by day, between May 14 and July 9 each year, with documents, images, and texts. In this way, she creates a connection between personal and digital remembrance, and involves a broad community in learning about and passing on the history of the Holocaust.

For me, the most important thing in my job is – the candidate wrote

That whatever I do, it will lead to us treating each other better tomorrow than we did yesterday. With friends and strangers, with loved ones and those who oppose us or those to whom we are indifferent – and with ourselves. Working as a psychologist, training future or already practicing teachers and my particular passion, interviewing, have taught me that we can achieve this mainly by listening openly and empathetically to the stories of others. Both those of individual people and groups of people. By giving them time, space and dedicated attention: the hope that they can tell it, and that it will be good.

At the initiative and under the leadership of my friend Gyula Hosszú, for 12 years now, every May to July, we have been recalling the summer of 1944, the deportation of rural Hungarian Jews, under the title "Silent Commemoration." A loyal small group of 20-30 people. At first, we were there in a park on Szabadság Square on each of the deportation days, with one more memorial plaque every evening, with the departure city of the trains that day and the number of people deported from there.

In recent years, we have only organized the opening and closing events of the event series in the park, and the remembrance of the days is taking place online, in the Facebook group called Silent Remembrance. In the order of the days, I try to describe the settlements of each county of (then) Hungary, when and how they were deported, and what ghettos and concentration camps they were placed in before their deportation. Archive photos, documents, and reminiscence details help to retell half-broken stories.

References

Gergely Kunt – Juli Székely – Júlia Vajda: Solutions and Connections. The Interplay of the Material and Virtual Memory of the Shoah on Szabadság Square. 2000 Journal, 2017. Issue 2:

https://ketezer.hu/2018/02/kunt-gergely-szekely-juli-vajda-julia-oldasok-es-kotesek/

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